March 21, 2010

Painful Love...

When a girl says she loves you, you just want to embrace her tight and shield her from all pain and sufferings and create a world full of love and happiness... 
But the stubborn wall of caste and religion is preventing me from this blissful embrace...
The longer i stand fighting the wall, the deeper she will drown in her own tears...

14 comments:

k.ø.c.h.ü said...

I believe this is real. Well just one piece of advice, It'll take another decade 4 people in Kerala(at least Kollam) 2 start thinkin of Arranged inter caste Marriages.most of de successfull ones these days r merely wen parents succumb 2 de uproar of kids.But from de personal exp of many of my pals from Engg. Course,chance of approval is more there :-)

k.ø.c.h.ü said...

Think Wise :-) luv is divine. But always Weigh it in a balance,against de luv of yer parents.It's tough though

roshny said...

i am so sorry, i don't mean to come across as insensitive or anything, but since you honour honesty,i have to say that this whole thing made me laugh out loud. well, not exactly the funny sorta laugh, more like sarcastic. maybe it was the first sentence.

now yeah..hmm..religion. caste .love marriage. i guess i think its wise to marry from your own community. not that am conservative or anything, but if the couple plan to live in india, peacefully, thats better. tears dry up. now i assume the "i" here is not yourself. hope this is a work of fiction,coz you know,the fight is hard.
"yeh ishq nahin aasan kuch aisa samajh lijiye
samjho aag ki dariya hai, aur tumhe kud ke jaana hai"

or something along the lines.

btw,if this is fiction, then its nt 55 fiction rt? counted, got more than 55.

Neethu said...

Sounds painfully familiar......

redDevil said...

hmm..love.. marriage.. such confusing things.. Falling in love is sweet until the point you have got to marry the other one.. Marriage is such a waste.. cnt ppl just enjoy the closeness and the companionship by just being together rather thn worry abt all the nonsensical things tht come packaged with a marriage?
dnt think thats going to be the situation in kerala anytime soon, but I am out of this place as soon as i can..

Arv said...

Happy New Year dude :)

lena said...

In the end you might just get through the wall.. keep hitting :)
Good luck.

Krishnaraj said...

Naked truth Reflected and Sounds Similer.
Well This is what happens in the case of even true love!

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anupama said...

Dear Amal,
Good Evening!
So,love is in the air!February is the month and just one week more for 14th,Feb.
Love may be blind.but life is not.think ten times.what about the embrace your parents gave you all these years?how could you forget those sweet embraces?
how can you be blind to those tears at home?
give space and keep a distance.if the love is true and pure,it will get back to u.
it's not difficult to say,''I love you'' these dyas.for many it has become fashion.
turn away from the wall and concentrate on some other creative work.90%LOVE MARRIAGES ARE FAILURES.
not to frighten you,but I feel more for your parents more than your dreamgirl.you're no superman to shield anyone from all pains.:)
Wishing you a relaxing holiday,
Sasneham,
Anu

muthu said...

hmhm....Tough call..

I not give you suggestions on what to do, and what not to do.

You, yourself fully understanding, the situation that you are in- are the right person to take the decision.

But- take one thing I say to your heart-

Never do anything that you will regret later.

Whatever you do, stick to it - to the end. Make it work. Go all out with evrything you have got.

& in doing so, I think you will find that- the solution was all along right besides you.. :)


Hope.. my comment helps....

Siddhartha Joshi said...

This is extremely sad...though so often so true. I can only wish you luck...

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Nikon Girl said...

Hey Amal, How are you doin?? Dint read anything new on ur blog from quite sometime... Yours was the first blog I read when I started blogging...

Looking forward to read something here.. :-)

hope u doing good.. Best Wishes